By Keerthi | Santasa Counselling
In 2025, the role of grandparents is evolving more than ever before. No longer just the quiet figures in rocking chairs sharing bedtime stories, today's grandparents are dynamic, tech-savvy, emotionally present, and deeply involved in their grandchildren’s lives. As a counsellor and educator, I see the beautiful transformation in intergenerational bonds and the positive impact it has on families.
A New Era of Grandparenting
The traditional image of grandparents as passive caregivers is being replaced by a more proactive, involved, and informed role. Many grandparents today:
Actively participate in parenting decisions while respecting boundaries.
Adapt to technology to stay connected, especially in long-distance relationships.
Play dual roles as caregivers and life coaches, offering both emotional security and moral grounding.
The Tech-Savvy Grandparent
Grandparents in 2025 are using smartphones, video calls, and even social media to connect with their grandchildren. Many read eBooks to toddlers over Zoom, attend virtual school events, and use parenting apps to understand child development trends. This digital literacy helps bridge generational gaps and keeps relationships thriving.
Emotional Anchors in Fast-Paced Lives
In a world of increasing nuclear families and working parents, grandparents often serve as emotional anchors. Their life experiences and calm presence can be incredibly grounding for children, especially those dealing with anxiety or behavioral challenges.
At Santasa Counselling, I often encourage families to build a support system around children — and grandparents are an essential part of that circle.
Challenges They Face
While this evolving role is beautiful, it’s not without challenges:
Role confusion: Some grandparents struggle to find the balance between support and overstepping.
Physical and mental health: Caring for energetic grandchildren can be exhausting, especially without adequate support.
Generational gap: Values and parenting methods may clash, leading to tension between parents and grandparents.
How Can We Support Grandparents?
1. Open Communication: Encourage honest, respectful conversations between parents and grandparents to align on parenting strategies.
2. Inclusion: Let grandparents feel included in family decisions without burdening them.
3. Skill Building: Introduce them to basic tech tools or parenting courses to keep them updated.
4. Appreciation: Acknowledge their efforts — a little gratitude goes a long way.
Final Thoughts
In 2025, grandparenting is a blend of tradition and transformation. These seasoned members of the family bring unmatched wisdom and love that shapes a child’s worldview. As counsellors and caregivers, it is our role to nurture these relationships and help families thrive in harmony.
Let’s celebrate the grandparents who give without expecting, love without conditions, and enrich the lives of our children every day.
